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Try having a conversation with him that reeks of two people in a ‘normal’ relationship and note his patent discomfort. The ones that do stay over and hang around, are astute enough to play the game to avoid creating conflict, but that doesn’t change the fact that they just want sex.A rule of thumb is that if you feel like you’re being used, it’s because you are, and if it feels like it’s all about the sex or sex seems to dominate or you have to be reassured that it’s not just about the sex, it’s because it’s all about the sex.This is not much better than treating someone like a prostitute and certainly is not an indicator of a man that wants to forge a relationship with you. He doesn’t want to try to get to know your personality.A guy doesn’t need to know what colour knickers you are wearing in order to get to know you. He seems to call only when it’s 1) dark, 2) late and 3) to arrange when to have sex.That’s two not so great qualities for the price of…well…your sanity! He expects something in return for taking you out to dinner and paying for the meal.There are guys that think: paid for date = getting laid that night.
It’s not because he’s not ready for a relationship yet; it’s because he just wants to have sex and is emotionally unavailable too.You are currently using the Flash-version of the chat: it's fully featured and optimized.If you are unhappy with the way Flash Player is functioning on your computer, please try switching to the HTML-5 site version by pressing on the "rocker".I don't mind telling him what I like and don't like, but if I'm not in the mood he gets really mad, insults me and tells me I'm hurting him by not "feeling like it".Obviously this behaviour doesn't drive me wild with desire, so it takes a long time for me to feel like wanting to be physical again.