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That said, it was a damn entertaining show for someone as horrible as myself.

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No one in the entire series played Dominion or Settlers of Catan even once, so I can’t say it’s a completely accurate portrayal of the life of the typical poly family. I know that poly communities do struggle with this in reality, but the lack of people of color is not nearly as absolute in real life poly world as it is on the show.

But all joking (mostly) aside, I present a list of my likes and dislikes about the show, in no particular order. The entire cast is white, able-bodied, cisgendered, thin and conventionally attractive. ) but no lesbians or gay/bi men, and everyone adheres pretty closely to gender norms as far as their appearances are concerned.

It was nice to see some obviously leftist poly folks in the cast, as I feel like a lot of the poly people who appear in the media aren’t really engaging with radical politics.

The triad on the show had Occupy posters all over their house, and on several occasions spoke of their lifestyle as revolutionary and compared it to other social movements.

Polyamory = “many loves,” not “many loves who necessarily must be permitted to hook up with each other.” Enact whatever rules work for your family, but don’t play the “my way of doing poly is the best” game. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, but I think the fact that the sex in the show is almost exclusively threesomes and foursomes and moresomes–and those who are seen having one-on-one sex are cast members who also frequently are shown participating in group sex–seems to fuel the misconception that this is what all poly folks are doing. But I would say that it’s equally common, if not more common, to be in relationships of the V (or N or W or some kind of zig-zagging line) variety, in which people have multiple partners but the sex still happens only between two individuals at a time.

I know Showtime is trying to sensationalize the group sex here, but it would have been nice for the sake of balance if the show had included a poly relationship that didn’t include threesomes or foursomes, since that’s the reality for a lot of us. There’s a lot of attention given to sex in general.

Rather than only focusing on the drama within the relationships (of which there admittedly was plenty), the show also tackled obstacles that are facing poly people living in a monogamous world.I just know that people in general tend to hyper-focus on the sex lives of poly people rather than considering our relationships, and the show didn’t do much to discourage that kind of thinking.Things I liked: The relationships were all serious, long term, and committed between more than two partners. I know some wonderful poly folks and have a lot of respect for that lifestyle choice. I’m not poly myself, mainly because I detest talking about feelings and relationships, but also because I find one man a lot of work and can’t imagine having time or energy for two or three.But for the purpose of watching Showtime’s Yeah, so my verdict is that this is a bad representation of polyamory as I understand it and have witnessed it among my friends.

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