Dating a girl who already has a boyfriend
Be a patient listener in the beginning and later use this as a way to make her understand the negatives about her existing boyfriend.
That’s a problem, because you’ll be pining after someone you can’t have, and might miss out on another wonderful girl that’s into you (and doesn’t have a boyfriend, which immediately makes her better than this one).
But before that you have to scrutinize her position.
Is she doing better with her boyfriend, or is she still having a hard time?
She’s got a boyfriend and he sucks, and she likes me a lot. Like an idiot, I might have just proved her right, because I got quite drunk at a party we were both at, and hooked up with another girl at that party.
She then got mad at me for hooking up with someone else, even though we’re not dating. I turned it into a blog post, because I know a lot of geeks end up in a similar situation.