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Millions of women around the world are meeting men on the Internet, or they've met in person and are corresponding by e-mail.But though e-mail and Net-based dating services have revolutionized the dating landscape, they've created their own pitfalls and challenges.These days, men and women meeting for the first time often exchange e-mail addresses sometimes before they exchange phone numbers!Women meeting new men at business conferences, birthday parties, or clubs give out their e-mail addresses and also take men's e-mail addresses, and then find themselves in an e-mail relationship with a man.With e-mail, women are tempted to let their guard down, let it all hang out, Instant Message men all night, and have cybersex (not The Rules! But we believe you cannot e-mail with abandon, without thinking, without Rules.You must watch what you say, how often you say it, no matter what or how often he e-mails you, otherwise the relationship becomes so casual that it can go poof!
More men are simply asking women out or asking them about their day by e-mail instead of or in addition to calling, whether they first met these women through [email protected], personals, yahoo.com, or at a party at a friend's house.
The Rules for Online Dating takes women through the process step by step, Rule by Rule to the ultimate goal: a relationship based on mutual attraction, interest, and respect.
Ellen Fein is a graduate of New York University and lives on Long Island, New York, with her husband and two children.
Readers began and continue to set up free online and offline support groups around the world and visit our website ( at the rate of over 400,000 hits a month.
But when we wrote The Rules seven years ago, little was known about online dating-many even considered it dangerous so we did not even include it.